Personal development

The confidence paradox; mirror reflection of a cat

The confidence paradox: why chasing it won’t make you a better leader

Many leaders believe confidence is something you can learn, but chasing it often leaves you feeling like an impostor. Real, authentic confidence comes when you stop performing and start discovering who you are as a leader. This is the confidence paradox: when your self-awareness and self-belief grow, confidence follows naturally.

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Breaking free from the Drama Triangle at work

Ever find yourself fixing other people’s problems at work, getting blamed for things that aren’t your fault, or feeling stuck in a loop of frustration with the same colleagues? You might be caught in the Drama Triangle - without even realising it.

This simple but powerful model explains why certain workplace dynamics keep repeating. Once you spot it, you can start breaking the cycle - for good.

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How to take great selfies!

I used to avoid the camera at all costs. Selfies felt awkward and unnatural, and I’d usually delete them straight away. But running your own business means being seen—so I signed up for the Slay My Selfies course. Now I carry a tripod in my bag, know how to use lighting and composition, and most importantly, I feel like I can show up as myself. It’s practical, confidence-boosting and well worth it. Here's what I learnt...

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